I'm 25. Left home to live in a big city. I have a good job, a healthy social life and a corporate discount at my local gym. I began the arduous process of coming out about a year ago, taking my sweet ass time with telling the people in my life. A handful knows I'm into dudes, and I'm sure plenty more suspect something's up. Like every other guy on Grindr, I'm #masc...I drink beer and whiskey, use monikers like "bro" and "dude" in everyday conversation, lift weights and am often referred to as a bro.
So that's me. Not looking for something mundane--but looking for more...clarity on my own life, perspective on what it's like for a gay dude who doesn't define himself by sexuality and an understanding of why the fuck I (and countless others) think so much about being a homo, and why sometimes it even bothers me.
So here we go.